Yes!!! You say in your article Now to set the record straight, I dont have any problems with nudity. And there are those who appreciate one's inner qualities. I jumped on the scale, then my stomach started killing me. Perhaps I have misunderstood your intention. To the other people commenting in this thread, nudity isnt that abnormal at a doctors office. "I like a nice back. I just refer to it as the pedophile pick-up, and people generally know what Im talking about. People are entitled to do what they please, of course. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure, treatment plan, product, or course of action. It turns out that if I had waited another 4 hours, I wouldve lost my testicle completely. America needs to loosen up. I went in to my normal family doctor to check it out, and he said we needed to get an ultrasound on it to make sure it wasnt cancer. UhI-I-Its my balls. I stutter out. Others may be drawn to their manner of dress or how they wear their hair. I dont want to be that prude American but also am not comfortable with how everything is done here. You only have the one. Thanks for the heads up Diane. No 1 am trips for overly expensive, off-brand tampons at a convenience store, and theyre better for the environment. How Bad Does It Hurt Im sorry if my original comment implied nobody wanted you nerds. What I learnt from this experience was that I should have spoken up and just told the student to leave straight away. I wasn't sure what to say, it was a little awkward. again, so it's not something I'd feel comfortable in supporting. directions too literally and tried to shove a handful of semen through the office window. So would I mind? Eesh. A commenter before you who was a doctor in France weighed in and said that a doctor watching you undress is NOT normal, in his opinion. I like privacy! I tell her I drank three bottles, like the sheet told me to. Did the doctor make you strip completely naked (no bra & pants) in front of them? Being very light I was '", "The Netherlands. Of course there are other factors involved but by and large the more nude-friendly a country the lower the teenage pregnancy rate. I mean even if its just for the patient to feel more comfortable, its worth it! She was wearing jeans, so I asked her to show me. The practice has three clinics, So I just did this snapping finger gun back to him. Wait until they've been around you a few times and are comfortable in their skin around you. Like when I decide to go to a dark room which I think I would be scar Really? Wincing, I climb up to my parents room. I get the okay to cough as she cups my balls. Again, why the nurse being in the room is so important I feel. after she told me to take everything off. When its time to get ready for the doctor and start undressing, shell watch my rather slow, yet somewhat embarrassing process getting all those warm snug clothes all off with the nurses help. I think they're so unique, cute and attractive. Chlamydia, an STI, often has no symptoms, but must be treated. Theres certainly a much more relaxed view of nudity and gowns are typically only provided to people admitted into hospital. Still being a diva cup noob, I wasnt very adept at fishing it out, so after about 2 hours, several positions, and a shower, I rush to the on-campus doctor. WebCystoscopy is a test used to diagnose many conditions that affect the lining of the bladder or the prostate. Never being at fault, always being the victim, and not taking responsibility for repair are huge red flags. She was very gentle with me also, yet stayed in the room as I started to undress, unbuttoning and unzipping my warm outer winter outfit. I'm almost sad.'. Just curious. Too bad you need to have surgery.. I was freaking out when the doctor walked in, so the nice nurse came in to help comfort me. Read on for being naked in front of doctors in France! Skip a couple minutes forward, Ive got my legs in the stirrups and the duck-billed instrument inside of me, and he is starting to realize that I may have actually gotten it stuck. I was rushed into the hospital. You have 2 anuses.. before getting a referral to the physical therapist, he had to examine my back. Again, I was wearing my favorite extra snug spandex underwear and not knowing how much time feeling, groping and looking my naked m young male body would take. I have a relatively straight set of natural chompers on me, but I can't stand unnaturally straight teeth. If so, thats not normal. There are a few dishes that are okay, but the lack of strong spices or seasoning makes this something I don't enjoy much. Whats the big deal? I think certain people have predispositions to being out of line. I hope you passed! But neither of us was uncomfortable with the arrangement. Those who focus on another's physical attributes may find a person's eyes stunningly beautiful. people who have a capacity for self-reflection and owning their mistakes tell stories where theyre a**holes. who played christopher ewing as a baby on dallas Yeni Gn skenderun Gazetesi DISCOVER THE ART OF PUBLISHING In the end, I didnt mind being nude as a young male, as She and Her French female medical staff treated me quite well and I soon appreciated being naked while examined by a French lady doctor. Its just common sense. Im replying to kindly ask you to stop repeating yourself with soft porn-like material that isnt welcome here. I know that feeling, as the same thing happened to me at a skin doctor specialist. Wanting to see the best in everyone is not a crime. I took off the cloth and proceeded bottomless to my clothes, which were nearby draped over a chair. People have different thoughts on conventional beauty. WebMOST EMBARRASSING EXAM EVER. As a male, if you are experiencing any of the following conditions, its recommended that you see a urologist: Issues when urinating such as pain or the presence of blood Sudden changes in smell, color, or odor of urine Urinary leakage or problems with urine flow Kidney stones or kidney pain in general The nurse does not leave the room while I undress or while I get dressed, just works on her computer after the examination to record the results. Should they abandon what their religion dictates (and what theyre comfortable with) just because its not mainstream in France, their new home? Im sure if I asked for a gown Id get one, its an unnecessary expense for what is questionable privacy since in a head to toe exam nothing goes without scrutiny. Anyway, I think your stance going forward is the right one. After the doctor looked at her, he asked my wife if she wanted an x-ray to be done. As soon as I could drive, wed go to Belgium for dinner with my high school class mates. Kazakhstani food is similar, but they have more ethnic diversity so you can get some decent Georgian or Korean hyphenated foods. Leave it up to the patients, but if some want to pass on gowns and other coverage and go au natural, let them. Its the first time Ive ever had a medical professional be so casual about nudity with me. Haha thats the funny thing! The Lamb Clinic understands and treats the underlying causes as well as the indications and symptoms. I don't wish to change it, but it gets me in more trouble than good sometimes because hardly anyone gets it. Prude American? She gives me this wide-eyed look. ", "The worst I experienced as a national cuisine: Kazakh. All Rights Reserved. As you can see from the comments, there are plenty of women into you guys". Eventually, they were able to get it out, (blood was everywhere), and I learned from a nurse who also uses a diva cup that the instructions that say to relax your muscles are completely wrong, and you need to push it out. He starts off our encounter seeming somewhat suspicious like maybe I am a fetishist/ bored/ whatever, but Im probably definitely wasting his time. She said that it wasnt abnormal for the medical students to play with the genitalia of unconscious patients and that they would regularly discuss and make fun of the bodies of their patients. Now recall that the whole time were having this discussion Im lying there with a big damn plastic police baton wedged up in my business and a bladder full of Aquafina. When I was younger, I went to the doctor, and Im not sure why, but he had to see my dick for some reason. I know theyre medical professionals and all but still, I just felt exposed and awkward. When I realized what I was doing, I quickly peeled my face away and apologized frantically. You should be allowed to keep your bra on (apart from during the breast exam) and be given a sheet. Maybe women would be less stressed if they stepped up to the plate on that equality thing and didnt label all men as being untrustworthy. It seems like these Redditors laid it out for us: discussions would be key, as well as boundaries. He was examining my eye and he said, OK, now open wide.. Im happy to have you here if you enjoy posts on French culture and living abroad, but further comments like this will be deleted. ", "Once we've figured out the details, I'd make a decision. You are in charge during the examination, and you have the right to stop the exam at any time, as well as the right to seek care elsewhere. What surprised me in your blog was your comment re the gynaecologist. Maybe a little reminder wouldnt hurt. Lets keep moving forward. By this point Im crying and flailing, and I just want my dad to show up. But when youre at the doctors office and already feeling vulnerable, alone, with a male doctor who is older than you in a position of power, maybe it wouldnt kill anyone to let the patient hang on to some of their dignity via a gown, or get undressed in private or even a simple knock before entering. My health is always good and Not overweight either. Naked Didn't find the answer you were looking for? I think people forget dry humor exists since everything is so exaggerated and in your face these days. I had had only a tshirt on, and a cloth draped over my bottom. Im sure a female urologist has found a male patient or two attractive at some point or another, but if shes a professional, it wont matter. Are nurses ever required to give handjobs as part of a medical procedure? No, nurses are absolutely never required to bring any type of sexual release to a patient. Give the gift of knowledge with our official 'did you know' book! I fall onto the floor and call my moms name. Sigh.) I had to go to a specialist urologist due to pain in my ding dong. WebAnswer (1 of 13): Question: When a man goes to a female urologist or female doctor to get a check up, does a male nurse have to be present? Short answer: No. They get to the ER, he drops his pants, and the doctor goes, Welp. I had the same x-ray experience in Belgium when I was doing the paperwork for my work permit and a chest x-ray was required. Many physical exams are during the cold winter months and Im well dressed for the cold weather. And for the record, at the gynecologist, you get completely naked right in front of the doctor, dont get a gown to put on and do not get a sheet to cover your private area during the examination. Hey I just had the most emarrassing exam ever.I went in to my local medi clinic to have a really bad ingrown hair looked at right under my testicles.Of course to my luck I had to get an older female doctor on call that day.Now I have always been afraid of getting an erection, and now my first female doctor ,for this lol.Anyways I when she came in and checked me everything went good,but then she said I need to follow her to the treatment room.Well then she had me take off my clothes and lay on the table with my feet in those things on the back of the table. Stay up to date with everything Oui In France! 2001-2023 The Pain Reliever Corporation. Everyone is encouraged to see their own healthcare professional to review what is best for them. Im usually the kind of person who avoids making a scene so I probably wouldnt have yelled, but I had an awkward experience two years ago that changed my mentality about these kinds of situation. They saw meconium (first baby poop) in the amniotic fluid, so they started flushing me out. While I did not understand much of the conversation (French love to speak in French regardless of knowing there is someone who doesnt speak French in the room), my boyfriend told me later he was glad that I couldnt because I would have said something rude. for me I think a woman is way more embarrassing. We turned and every time the patient coughed, urine shot out about two feet. OnlyFans has really become quite a phenomenon. Id love to read a copy of the French code of ethics and conduct in the medical profession. I was mortified! You see, upon arriving in France, all newbies have to have a medical examination including a chest X-ray to check for TB before being issued a permanent residency card. Some doctors have the kinds of specialties that might make others cringe - but those doctors who specialize in reproductive and excretory systems are literal life savers! Wrong..wrong..wrong. The physical therapist is professional and has never done anything to make me question his judgment, but Id be lying if I said I wasnt a little shocked he barged right in on me. I showed up for my annual girly checkup to find out that my usual doctor had been called to some medical emergency and was asked if I would I mind an OBGYN student performing the pelvic exam (supervised, of course). Try being male at ANY medical setting, anywhere. "They are dismissive of people who can do nothing for them. I had to go for a urology exam due to a lump on my testicle. First of all, I have never been to a doctor in France but have been to a fair number in the US. I like to deliver a joke like Norm MacDonald. ", "Then what kind of content she makes, I've heard about a lot of different types, one was pretty much just cleaning in lingerie which doesn't seem bad to me, whether she'd give it up we ended up in a relationship, stuff like that. The main reason for Look after it. ", "I have a dry sense of humor. ", "Dry sense of humor. My doctor always requires that, Im completely undressed for my examination too. I always have much less medical anxities, when be examined by a female doctor anytime. Ive been to see her a few times only and still somewhat embarrassed being totally naked with her, yet She does like examining her patients completely in the nude. its all seems normal, she was prolly asking you those questions to try to make you more calm and relaxed, abd wiping u clean becuz that what doctors do, if you went to the doctor and u were bleeding would u expect them to tell you to clean off ur own blood. Going after what you want. ", "Well, there can be layers to it. The private 1-person sauna is in an adjoining room that is sectioned off from his office via a door. I get erections in situations even when I am not sexually tempted. When I asked one colleague about this he laughed and said something like, Only if theyre pretty, then its a nice treat. We take our beliefs and social customs with us and while I can learn about what the French do, just because Im here doesnt mean I will automatically be able to act French. Nor should I. Well, I hop in the shower, touch my junk, and yell in pain, falling in the process. I took some ibuprofen, sucked it up, and kept playing. He doesn't understand. The assistant was having some issues and as soon as I got in the stirrups, the assistant said loudly, 'Man, this one's a stinker!'. WebObviously getting an erection during any physical exam of the genitals can be embarrasing for the patient. That being said, I would encourage you to be vigilant. Im like no way in hell, dude! Anyhow, these are some mostly innocuous stories of visits to the doctors office, where embarrassment reigns supreme over other regular nuisances one might encounter while seeingdoctor, like finding out your pre-existing cancer is no longer covered by your insurance: I went in for a prostate exam, and when the doctor was performing it, I ejaculated. I know some people like that. Luckily, they put me on some more drugs and did the procedure. Does anybody actually like going to the doctors office? The Lamb Clinic provides a comprehensive assessment and customized treatment plan for all new patients utilizing both interventional and non-interventional treatment methods. Flexible cystoscopy. But I didnt want to seem like a prude so I didnt say anything. Ive been to going to a female doctor for physical exams and other medical care only in the U.S. for several years, who known me well too. Or should I stop wearing gym clothes to the supermarket after I work out because its not the French thing to do? 'Crows feet' - when a middle aged woman smiles, the tiny wrinkles at the corner of her eyes are a reflection of all the smiles shes ever had. They are both very professional with me also. Unsure of what to do, I waited until they opened the door where the woman gestured that I should take off my shirt and bra, but she shut the door to allow me my privacy. She offered me a gown, I asked why, she said it was purely for my comfort, and I said I didnt need it. Im impressed you were able to stay relatively calm when that physical therapist walked in on you like that. WebThe embarrassing part of a guy getting a sports physical exam is when the male Dr feels my testicals and my penis shrinks up or when the female Dr feels my testis I get a hard boner. 2020 George Takei. Hi, yes we got it and my daughter is ok. 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